It’s quite surprising how many people come up with lots of different resolutions to get the year started and even though they may make these resolutions, they never seem to go with them. They fail to make the smallest of resolutions work for them.Sure most people go with losing weight, getting fit, going on that health kick, they say they will quit smoking, change their habits and much more. But no one ever seems to tell anyone what their sexual resolutions will be. So if you’re already working on your resolutions to take into the New Year then perhaps you need work on what you want to do, what you want to try sexually.Sex is great for productivity, it’s someone that is often overlooked, and undervalued because making time to have sex is something we have to do and we see it as a luxury rather than a need. Sex is something that stimulates our minds and it can actually increase the way we look at life and enjoy life. Sex can take away some of the stress and we may look at each day differently. Satisfaction is something that we don’t all have enough of.
This month I decided to ask a few close friends what their sexual resolutions are for the year and I was quite surprised to get the responses I did. Not everyone likes to talk about their sex lives and they certainly don’t like to have the pressure put on them when it comes to resolutions. A lot of men and women fail to make them because they know they won’t keep them but I have been assured by the men and women at He Does She Does this month that they will keep their resolutions because they found that to plan them was a turn on more than they imagined.
It’s time to look at what their sexual resolutions are and perhaps when you read theirs, you may come up with a few ideas of your own… Mark is up first with his sexual resolution…
Mark, He Does love sex so it wasn’t hard convincing him to think up a sexual resolution for the year and follow it through. His sexual resolution is a fantasy that he wants to become a reality.
Marie, my resolution is to give as much pleasure to my girl as possible. She enjoys a little bondage play and has tried to convince me to switch places with her. And it’s always been a fantasy but I guess in reality I couldn’t see myself receiving a little pain.Lots of men hate pain… and I’m one of them but thinking about it turns me on and after you mentioned a sexual resolution well, I thought about it. Yep… and I want it to happen and I am going to be my girl’s submissive or sex slave. I will endure the pleasure and the pain whenever the moment arises and I want it to. I spoke to her about it and she smiled. I knew what she was thinking.But I wasn’t expecting her to tell me what she wanted to do to me. Well in a way she did but in a way she didn’t. All she told me was she had a special strap-on waiting for me… gulp… and her paddle with studs and a bamboo cane she was itching to use. I never knew she had those things hiding away. So you see, my fantasy can come true… but I won’t know when she will use those things until the time is right in the new year…
To many my sexual resolution may not be much but to me, fantasizing about the pleasure and pain that I will receive and the not knowing when it will happen is a huge turn on.
Sally, She Does love making resolutions but she hardly keeps them. And they are often about finances, health and losing the odd pound or two but when I mentioned making a sexual resolution she just looked at me. In a way I think she thought I was joking until I told her I was quite serious… and her first words to me were….
Marie, sex toys, a new supply of sex toys that I can share with my partners…
And of course it was me that looked at her slightly confused…
Yeah Marie, my partner and my girlfriend. We love having threesomes and I am always looking at ways to enhance my pleasure and theirs. I’d love them to both fuck me with toys or I’d like to experience double penetration and the only way to do that is to buy a new toy that my girlfriend can wear and she can fuck my pussy while my partner fucks my ass.So I am going to make my sexual resolutions so that when I have sex with my partner and girlfriend each moment will be an experience to remember…I like Sally’s way of thinking and it’s something very different to what others thought for their sexual resolutions….
Here are a few more…
He does want to give his wife more orgasms, use foreplay more often, try anal with his partner and introduce porn videos to enhance the sexual moments that they share with their partners.
She does want to make sexual resolutions. She wants to have more orgasms, she wants her partner to learn how to find her g-spot and to make her squirt and she does want to try different sexual positions.
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